I'd get at least your main to Mood Level 6 or higher. You should only upgrade the moods of other ninjas that you know you will keep using into the future, as it can be quite expensive to get all moods upgraded. You should probably save most of your coupons for Battle Armour, since that boosts all ninjas stats. Overall, it's up to you, but I wouldn't advise anyone who isn't paying a lot for the game to boost moods a lot instead of going for refines and BA.