I know how ya feel dude, trust me, my server 1 group has at least 5 heavy spenders in a group plus other group that joined them only for x-gnw, it does *, all i can say is, try to have fun, dont take this game too serious unless ur willing to drop big money, there's no way you will compete with heavy spenders.

based on my experience regarding this situation, some people will quit for 2 reasons mostly ; either they get bored of winning, or their friends quit the game.