The internet is a thing of beauty, you never know who is on the other side of the screen. They may say they are gay or make other coments, but you see in reality he might not have this *uak preference. Thus *phobic statements are not only inappropiate, but also unfounded. You can complain about someone being toxic and rude, but please do not attribute his behavior to his supposed *ual preference.

In the internet you can be very different from your real life self. Hell for all you know i can be a cat that learnt to play the game named Mr fluffles.

Back on to the merge topic, i am interested too on the criteria for merge and the actual process. My server on the 400+ was visited by an ambassador one day a little over a week ago, we wanted a merge. He only came once and we have had no further information or contact from Oasis. Are we getting merged? soon? why did the ambassador came once and probably talked to only 3-4 people??

So many questions, so little info. The root of most problems between the community and Oasis is their complete lack of communication, including to the forum mods, who probably aren't told anything in advance.