ouch that is one wall of text you got there op .. anyway sometimes you need to adjust rather than seeing your group defeat to the strongest team as weakness but rather as one of the only worthy opponent of the said 'dictactor' .... and for the fun, bro you can compete with each other in group and focus on what you guys wanna thrive ingame so it is your choice either pvp, pve , collector, the powered, p2win, or just laid back homey.