Hello all, I'm Aria from server 103. I'm currently the strongest wind on my server. Some of you may see this as a bit of a rant, but it's really not meant to be that way. The purpose of me writing this is to give a bit of food for thought for those seeking help from the stronger people on your server that think the same as me. Now to get into it, let me first say that I have no problem helping people, whether you're in my group or just a random on my server. The things that get annoying, I've taken the time of listing. I wasn't really sure as to what category to place this in, I apologize if I've chosen wrong.

1.) People randomly joining my party while I'm trying to form parties for Team Instance, Plunders and things of the like.

2.) After being removed from the party, the person continually joins back up.

3.) People randomly inviting me to things without asking for my help or telling me what it is you're needing help with.

4.) Rude, obnoxious, ungrateful and altogether toxic party members. I'm no stranger to MMO's, having played almost all the bigger titles currently out there. Remember, while in a party with others, a little kindness goes a long way.

As I said above, I have no problem helping people on my server and if asked, most of the time, should I have the time to help I'll do just that. I understand why people want to join in parties with the stronger people since they then have the best chance at completing whatever task it is they are setting out to do. I honestly feel that all of us should be helping each other out as well, especially the newer servers that are struggling for things like Nine-Tails. Server events like that, only benefit from people helping each other to grow and become stronger. All that being said, don't just assume before asking, don't party up before talking to the person you're wanting help from. Overall this really comes down to just thinking before assuming. Stop and ask yourself if you would like someone doing what it is you're currently doing before doing it to someone else. If you've taken the time to read this thus far I thank you. This is all subject to opinion and this is my opinion on the observations I've made during the time I've been playing this game.


Thank you all for reading,
Aria.

This post was last edited by AriaScarlet at 2016-9-28 00:48