base on what i've read, their problem is getting plundered by those other players in 2 other groups and being helpless because of the power gap between his members and the 2 big groups ..

Well, first of all, we players are the ones who needs to adjust because we all know that the thing you're suggesting was already suggested so many times that i couldn't count it since i played this game. Lets face the fact that the system on how this Plundering system will never be changed. I have few questions for you to answer and please be honest, what is the reason why you and your other friends decided to create a new group? is it for the packs or you're just the type of player that wants to be the leader of a group?. Because all i can suggest or advice to you to solve your problem is to merge with 1 of the big group you have in that server, since aside from that matter, is the GNW things.

Try to evaluate the 2 big group you have in your server and choose the one who you thing that your group will be fit to join and make the server balance. If you are the Leader or your Leader must talk to that 1 group and make an arrangement about the group merge. But of course being on the lowed end of the deal will give you small options for the arrangement, just tell what you wanna get and what you wanna be on that big group and try to resolve things with its leader.