Since when have games devolved to the point where it needs to hold your hands?

I can blame the game for lots of things, I can even blame it for making those RNG events when they first came out, as the risks are relatively unknown and any unavoidable RNG stuff like refine/charm sometimes*. But at this point, with so many threads on the subject matter, anyone who gets bitten by RNG event like this only have themselves to blame.

*sometimes because law of large number usually evens out. But given the finite sample size per player, some player do end up relatively shafted, thou far fewer than the complaints make it appear. RNGsus on any mandatory growth component is, IMO, not proper game design.