So, the server I'm currently on is about 2-3 months old, and already within the first month or so it already began to die out. Following that groups became scarce. There's been two groups that usually are pretty active and participate in GNW - all that good stuff. Around the second month there's a steady decline in one of the groups, and a rise in the other - being mine. The leader of my group, alone with some others, ditched the group to join the rival group for whatever reason.
Now, after that occured the leader of the rival group attempted to offer me and my group a merge onto their group. I declined, being the new leader of *ready dying group because I feel as though everyone being clustered in one massive group with a dying server is just absurd, and because I know by this point they were only drafting strong players to be dominant. Weeks pass and my former leader and senior can now participate in GNW, our group went from being decently strong and winning here and there, to being downright demolished from lack of number or them just overpowering us.
Now in recent times my group members, and me, are constantly plundered by our former members and some are even considering quitting. I understand this is just a game, and it's supposed to be for fun, but I honestly don't know what to do at this point. I've had my group send in server merge requests for the entire server and i'm trying to be as patient as can be. I've went from a stable 2nd highest strongest person on my server to 4th with those former members rising up, meaning I can no longer support my own members in convoy to defend their income of coupons.
It's demorlizing at this point, and I'm seeking any sort of answers on what to do here. Should I just bide time and be patient for a server merge? Or just cave in and merge my group with our rival group?