I had an ambassador visit my server around 2 months ago when it was quite dead and that did not help with the merge process at all. Now 2 months later the server is at least 3x more dead than it was at the time of his visit and i have given up on asking for a merge as it does absolutely nothing, at least for me.
I talked with the ambassador and gave him all the info about the server activity and all they could tell me is they will pass the info on in their weekly report, but that is exactly the same as requesting a merge which pretty much does not change anything.
I would like an official response as well as the selection does not seem random at all judging by the amount of servers asking for a merge for 4+ months while servers who don't ask for a merge get it.
Please do enlighten the community with the selection process.